Girls: If a girl always waits for her BF to be the one to initiate affectionate gestures, is she selfish because she is only thinking about herself
I think she is because she is ignoring the fact that guys need to feel wanted as well
- Yes she is selfishVote A
- No she isn't selfishVote B
Most Helpful Girl
in order to maintain the position of initiator a lot pf guys accuse women of being clingy for ridiculous reasons or no reason at all. not saying thats you. or thta kind of guy is the guy anyone should have as a bf. or that its reasonable for her to assume instead of just talking it over. just saying many guys assume women are clingy pretty easily so maybe she's just making sure you know she's not. that could be a reason.
on the other hand if you clearly expressed interest in affection and she ignored it. then she's not a good gf for you. I don't know what her reason is but she's disregarding your needs without communicating.
talk to her. if she's unwilling to communicate oor put effort in, dump her.1