My ex called me, missed it, but hasn't called again?

My ex called twice (two days in a row) a little over a month ago and I missed it, didn't call back because he was mean during break up, but he hasn't called again. Does that mean he thinks he made a mistake calling me and won't call again? If he called again I'd answer, but I'm scared of what he wants or will say to me?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Just because a couple has a Bad 'Break up,' doesn't necessarily mean it's: Good bye, my love. Some find that, with the Missing and the kissing even after a month-------They end up Contacting you And Confusing you again.
    I always say that with an Ex that X marks their spot when it comes to some familiar territory they used to know And---Love, let;s say. His reasons for 'Called twice' were Yes, he was checking to see how you were doing these days, and maybe to see if there was another cat on his turf. Sounds logical.
    However, Another Motive I always find with the man from the past, is that they are Into the Friendship Fellowship of "Let's be friends with benefits, baby." It means no strings attached, no ties except to you and what's between the sheets, and of course aside from Possibly even putting a label on you: "Exclusive," Doesn't warrant an Official now, and may not ever again in the near future.
    If he calls you again, it's your choice your call if you want to pick up to him or even Begin your beguine with him. But as the old saying goes: Buyer beware And... Just what he may have in store for you and him once more.
    Don't be scared now... This is a toss of the coin as to a heads up as to what-----He wants or will say to me.
    Good luck. xx

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What Guys Said 5

  • He probably won't call again. He made the effort twice. That's my golden rule with women. If I'm blown off twice then no more.

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  • Call him, if you dont like where the conversation is heading end the call.

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  • call him and find out. or at least send a text

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  • Do what you want to do. Take the risk you might get hurt but hey that's life. If you honestly want to see him call him and try. But make sure you aren't doing it out of fear. If you just feel lonely or just really want to be in a relationship don't do it you'll probably regret it. But if you honestly want him and specifically him back in your life pick up that phone and take the risk.

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What Girls Said 2

  • He probably misses you and is not calling because he doesn't want you to think that he is needy if you miss him I would say call him back asap. Lots of people get back together after a hard breakup because they made a mistake

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  • Meh, don't go backwards. He had a weak moment and you'd have just gotten wrapped back into the failed relationship. Leave it in the past, don't let his weakness be your weakness.

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