I have been seeing this guy for a couple of months and things seem to be going great. When I see him he is great and treats me so well. I really like him and he acts like he likes me but neither of us have said it. We slept together for the first time just the weekend gone. The thing is he doesn't text me back much during the week. like he won't text me at all during the day, then sometimes late at night he will text me for a bit. But then sometimes it will be over 24 hours till he replies to my text. I know that he works long hours and I understand if he can't text much during the day, but going 24 hour periods? Does it sound like he isn't as into me as I think? In saying that on the weekend if I'm not with him he texts me back more.
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I wouldn't necessarily say that. First of all, guys are not big texters or communicators. It's not how we bond with women. Men bond through physical contact and closeness. Women bond through communication. both things respectively release hormones like dopamine that make us feel good. That's why girls always want to talk to their BF where as guys never do and just want to touch you and have sex with you.
Plus given what you said, he's likely reading the text when he is at work or busy with the intention of replying, then forgets about it until a later time. I do this all the time if I've read the text and as a result no longer have any sort of notification on my phone.
Honestly, texting habits are one of the last things I would judge a guy's interest by.0