Iv been friends with this girl for around a year, we met at work (she has since left). We got on well and became very close over the following months. We have the same interests in food/drink/music we go to the gym together & have almost identical personalities.
I break up with my Ex and she is there for me as a friend like she has always been. One day she tells me she likes me & wants to be more than friends I tell her I like her too but Im not ready to jump into a new relationship. She says she understands & that "if we are still having this talk in a year, she will walk away but to take as much time as I need". We spend more time together meeting up 3-4pw for a drink or a walk/drive.
I say that I dont want to start anything unless she is 100%, as I dont want to ruin a great friendship. She says that she is positive this is what she wants, that my ex didn't know how lucky she was & that I am different to every other guy. We agree to talk about our feeling as we transition from friends -> relationship; throughout these talks she is always telling me that things are "better than she ever could have imagined". We date for a number of weeks, she says she is still sure. By now we've kissed & made out.
>> We are now in a relationship, she has told her mam how much she likes me. She invites me to go away for the day with her fam months in advance and I agree.
>> Iv been for dinner with her family, slept at mine, we've had sex, her mam says I am welcome to stay at theirs any time, my parents say the same. Her mam was involved in an accident & she called me first (before her brother) I spent the evening in the hospital with her. She spends 3 days straight at mine then tells me she won't see me for a week as she's busy with work & has made plans with friends, however she will take me out on Sunday. Still texts me 24/7 morning - night. Sunday arrives, she says things arnt the same, cancels the date and now won't text/call/talk to me. What has happened?
Before we started dating she booked a girl holiday away, that is next Sunday. Will this have anything to do with it?