I started dating a guy one month ago. Things started fast i thought it would be a one night stand but he insisted on keeping contact with me and i accepted to start dating him. He talks to me all the time we have amazing chemistry and he says he has not felt this way for anyone in a very long time... But! I see he likes pictures of hot girls all the Time on instagram and it really bothers me. Should i see it as he is just a player or is it normal for a guy to keep looking and liking pictures of hot girls? What do you think? Ty
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Mmm... a month is super early. And even it was a year in guys look at pictures, magazines, chicks on TV and Movies, p*rn, girls we see from day to day. It means nothing. Only thing that means anything is who we're with and how we feel about them. We're guys and this is just something we do. Some more than others but all of us do it in some fashion to some degree. The difference is that most of us error on the side of caution and don't do it in front of our women. So if this is something that you are witnessing and it's a deal breaker for you then like Peter0 said you might wanna have the, "I wanna be monogamous," talk with him. If he says yes, then you can bring to light that his instagram activity is an issue and maybe even that that is why you asked in the first place.
If it was me and it was only a month in, but I really liked you, and you said you wanted to be monogamous, I'd probably say yes. And if you asked me to stop snap-chatten or instagramming looking at pictures of girls where you could see my activity openly I could agree to that too. Anything more than that after only a month and I start to get turned off. But that's just me.0