A girl who is best friends with one of my friend's wives was out here visiting this past weekend. I met her Saturday and we hung out for the rest of the weekend through Monday and I ended up staying at their place with this girl. I've never considered a long distance relationship, but this girl just does something for me. Not exactly sure what it is, but I feel oddly attracted to her. She is so fun and has a personality I'm just really attracted to. Doesn't hurt that she is very good looking either!! When she left I jokingly said "come back and visit soon" she said "oh I'll be back soon" and "who knows maybe one day I'll move here ;-)". Right now she lives across the country. She's like 31 and I'm 35. I just wondered if it was something you've ever considered or would consider, especially after just meeting someone? Ordinarily I advise anyone against these situations, but I guess when it happens to you it seems different. I feel like I should just forget it, but for some reason I've actually been considering seeing if she would be open to it or at least seeing each other again very soon. We both have good jobs and could easily afford to see one another. Has anyone ever had a situation like this turn out to be successful?
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I had a similar situation and met this guy through a friend and he was visiting and he lived 6 hrs away from me, but he pursued strongly and asked me out. Then he wasn't able to come to me because he had drill (he's in the Air National Guard) so I went to him and we had two amazing dates and I really liked him. I was all on board to have a LDR but then he decided later that he didn't want to have a LDR (He'd had one in the past and got hurt)... So I don't know if this helps but I think you should ask her. Worst case she decides she doesn't want to do long distance, but she could be like me in that she doesn't mind it. :)0
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