I have tried to ask the same girl out twice already. On the first try, she claimed that she was busy. On the second try, I asked her a more general question by first asking if "I could grab dinner with her some time next week". Her response was that she had a rather busy week ahead. In reply, I ask her if I could meet her on Wednesday and if not, perhaps she could suggest another date. Her reply was that she was completely packed that week and the following weeks were dependent on the schedule.
To me, that is a big sign that she isn't interested in me, or she would have suggested another date right? What should I do?
I honestly really like her, but am not willing to pursue something that is never going to happen.
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Sounds like she isn't interested. No matter how busy someone is, they should at least find a little time to do something with you if they're truly interested. For instance, grabbing a coffee could literally take no more than 20 minutes. Yes, it's a very short date, but at least it's something. So yeah, to me it sounds like she doesn't like you back.1