I've been dating this guy for awhile now and he does everything he can to make me happy. I know he's a good guy and any girl would kill to have him. He makes mistakes, but I just can't get the feeling of not being happy out of my head. My ex boyfriend beat the Shit out of me and treated me like crap. Now that I have a good guy I'm not happy. I feel like something is wrong with me. Maybe its because all of my ex's treated me like a punching bag. I try so hard every day to be happy. I make sure that my bf is happy. I cook clean ask him about his day ect. Is there something wrong with me? I feel like if I'm happy everything will go wrong. I can't let my guard down and I don't know why. I don't want to lose him.
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I think you know why you're unhappy. You're choosing to be unhappy because being happy is too scary. As you stated yourself, if you let yourself be happy, you're scared everything will go wrong. But being unhappy sucks... you deserve better than that. You should allow yourself to be happy. Easier said than done, I imagine... but you should try. If you don't let your guard down, you will lose him and be even more miserable... so take small steps to allow yourself some happiness... maybe you can talk to your boyfriend about your feelings so he can help you get there.0
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