I've been talking to this guy for about a month now. We text or talk on the phone every day (almost all day), but we've only gone out with each other once. He works a lot so I understand *sometimes* how he can be too tired or doesn't have time to schedule time with me. We've tried meeting up a few times and he either ends up falling asleep or it gets too late. My thoughts are that if he was into me, he'd make that extra effort to see me.
The question here is- how long it too long to be invested in seeking out something with a person who seems like they don't have enough time to date? It's only been a month and I don't want to seem pushy, but at the same time I don't want to invest my time or effort in something that's not even there.
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I think being together for a month and only seeing each other once is a bad omen for a relationship. first off I don't see how someone is so busy to only see someone once and if they are truly that busy that would indicate that they actually do not have time for a relationship.
whether he's totally into you or not he isn't ready and doesn't have time to a lot to a real relationship. so that should be a deal break
the #1 rule for dating, is be with someone who is ready, willing and able to date0