This is kind of a continuation of this question - www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1096956-why-is-it-so-hard-to-get-a-girlfriend
I just want a step by step guide as to how a guy like me could get a girlfriend.
Advice like 'be happy', 'be confident' and 'just work on your looks' does not work for me, as I don't even understand what that means. I need practical advice.
Also advice like approach 500 girls on the street doesn't work for me as I live in a small town. I need realistic advice.
Here is pictues to show you how I look and how I dress, the password is qwerty - s1285.photobucket.com/.../ASOIAF?sort=3&page=1
Here is a picture of my physique, as I don't want everyone to tell me stop being fat and start working out - http://imgur.com/LuEKUc9
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I think you should do some things before you even start looking for a girlfriend. I know being happy with yourself sounds like a cliche but seriously work on being happy in general. Happy people attract other happy people.
Work on your depression, lack of motivation and laziness. Focus on things that make you happy. If you don't have a hobby, get one. Preferably sports related, you would work on your body and sports releases endorphines. Take some classes which are girl heavy, which are pretty much all of them at my gym. Set goals, run a marathon next season.
As for your height/ bone structure , nothing you can do about so just work with what you got. Plenty of short men have attractive girlfriends.
Stop dating for a while. I don't believe that to stop looking and you'll find someone works, but it seems like you have a lot of issues.
Try making friends with women for now. Approach women you think are unattractive you will be naturally more confident but be honest about wanting to be friends with them. A female friend could always be a "gateway friend" she'll probably introduce you to other female friends and who knows one of them might be Mrs. Right1