I met a guy in the beginning of July and things have been going well. We went on a date and hung out. We got along really well. The second time we hung out things got intense between us but I didn't have sex with him because I thought it would be too soon. And I wanted to make sure that he wasn't just interested in sex. He didn't seem upset, he smiled and held me and stayed and watched the movie with me. The next day I texted him and explained to him why I didn't have sex with him that day and that I think he is a great person who is intelligent, hardworking and more. I told him that I want to keep him around because I like him as a person and I didn't want to just use him for sex, I wanted him to be more. He seemed fine after I said all of that as well. He still texted me everyday or every other day to see how I was doing and to just talk to me and he told me that he missed me. But about a week later I don't know it seems like he started to become a little distant or disappeared. I talked to him last Tuesday (July 29th). On Tuesday he was fine, he was laughing and the mood was good. Its been 5 days since then and I haven't heard from him. I texted him about 3 times and I even called once. But he hasn't gotten back to me yet. I went on instagram and it said he posted one picture like 2 days ago and followed 3 new people. I feel ignored and a bit upset with him. I try to give people benefit of the doubt and try to be understanding. I tried to think that maybe something happened in his life that caused him to be MIA. But I don't know, I don't know what to think. I feel like if someone likes you it wouldn't take 5 days to get back to you. Maybe I'm being a little impatient? Or do I have every right to feel the way I do? Should I wait for him to get back to me and see what he says, or should I just delete his number?
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Lol this random guy added me on Tango, we talked for about 2 days and then he kept asking for my pic - so I showed him. We talked for another day or 2. Then he started ignoring my texts. So I just said "If you don't wanna talk just say so". He replied he's become religious and it was nice talking to you sister xD but he wob't talk to girls anymore. It was pretty funny as I knew he was lying.
I think the situation is the same - he waiting for you to get the message he doesn't want to contact you anymore :(1