Recently, my girlfriend showed me a photo she took of a mutual friend of ours. Our colleague.
He loves not wearing any underpants and go naked while we change out in our workplace (kitchen). She took a photo of his naked body from the back, and showed it to me, thinking I'll be amused by it. I clearly wasn't.
My response disappointed her and made her mad. I was not pleased that she did that. Don't get me wrong. If it was anyone else that showed me the photo, I would have found it hilarious.
Its just the old-fashioned in me that think that, if you are my girlfriend, the last thing on your mind is to tell me how you find other guys that are attractive or cute. It is also indecent for you to even look at a guy who is always naked while he changes out, even though he does it all the time, even though he is a friend, even though it happens all the time, let alone take a photo of it.
Is it so hard to find a girl that holds true to such old-school sort of decency anymore? Is it hard to find people that have any kind of principle that they believe in anymore?
Has everything became such gray-areas, and separated by a thin line, and all it takes is a moment of doubt or a borderline-indecent act to spur infidelity, and there is no more clear cut lines of decency?
I do not believe, "its a modern day" excuse is good enough for me to see how humans have turned into people with no morals, and are easily tempted to turn their backs on people that have given them their heart...
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In this day and age with the way people view things, most people would
consider you old fashion. However, there's nothing wrong with that.
I know I'm a girl, I but can understand why you didn't consider that funny.
Me personally, I wouldn't find that funny either. I don't find people taking
pictures of other naked people to be funny, but everybodies sense of
humor is different. I also understand how it could be considered disrespectful
to you for your girlfriend to take a picture of another man. I can understand
where you're coming from. Remember this, there's many different types of
humor and some people find things like nudity to be funny. Since you don't,
you she tell her that it bothers you, so it doesn't happen again. I mean, you
probably respect her wishes on certain things she doesn't like, she should give
you the same respect.0