Ok so I have been talking to this guy that I have known for two and a half months, I feel like he is trying to move a little fast , he comes over a lot and sometimes stays for like 3 days straight.. Ok so I am 20 years old with a 14 month little girl... I need and want my space.. I hate not having time to myself, so Men , ever since the first time we hung out, every single time, no matter what, when we get into bed, he immediately try's to have sex. Now may I add I work 6 days a week , come home and take care of my baby, and go to bed. I don't ALWAYS WANNA HAVE SEX ! So sometimes I have to lie and make something up bc I don't want to and I don't wanna hurt his feelings, so then he asks me "ok well then can you do something for me then?" So then I do bc I don't want him to be mad. But seriously it's freakin annoying ! And then the other night he tells me , your the best thing that has ever happened to me? Do you guys think that's weird? because I do. We have known each other two months wtf? Don't get me wrong he is a good, fun guy. But ooooommmmggg... Clingy much? Also he always has an attitude with my best friend... Sorry but if u don't like my best friend then that is going to be an issue. I just... I don't know maybe I'm being paranoid but this is how I feel... He thinks we're like committed to each other also. I don't want a relationship right now or anything serious what so ever... I don't know how to tell him this without sounding like a bitch... Any opinions? 💋
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Even though you probably won't like what I have to say much, I'd consider yourself lucky to have a guy that into you. Since you have a 14mo baby and all. Not saying that's a bad thing but there are literally tons of single moms out there that would kill to have a guy that was this into them. And, I can understand about the thing with you besty. On the other hand maybe it would be a good idea to try and understand why he has an attitude with your friend. Sometimes people just don't get along.
At the same time 2 months is pretty fast to be moving at that pace and is fairly odd.1