My cousins had a cookout last weekend and the drummer from my cousin's band came into town to join in on the fun. We started talking about music, life, future plans and anything else that came up. Conversation flowed flawlessly for hours.
Within two hours he had asked how I spelled my name and before I knew it he was getting my number.
An hour after that, while we were alone outside he got up from his seat across the table and kissed me, before returning to his seat and saying he'd been wanting to do that for hours.
Throughout the night he'd sneak kisses when no one was looking, hold my hand and tell me how beautiful I was.
By the end of the night (We had all gone downtown for a local festival) he no longer cared about PDA in front of our friends and my family.
We cuddled all night and the next morning, hung out the next day, and he said I had "Ruined him for all women"
Here's the catch. He lives an hour and a half away, and comes into town once or twice a week.
He has made it clear he wants to hang out again, and he has kept in contact since that night on a regular basis.
We have a date planned this week, and he's made arrangements to stay the night in town.
From a guy's perspective, do you think he was sincere in wanting to pursue something more in this "Hook-Up" generation we live in or if he wants to keep the status quo.
I'm absolutely interested in pursuing something more, based on our immediate and almost intense mutual attraction and connection. I don't think I could keep myself from becoming attached if he only wanted a friends with benefits type thing. Help a girl out?
- He's serious about youVote A
- He just wants some bootyVote B
- Doesn't matter, go for it.Vote C