I am a cheerful person, I am shy but I know how to flirt, I see myself as attractive, my friend said I am pretty, but I can't get anybody to like me.
Not even one man ever approached me first. It is always me.
My 2 past relationship, I started them. I confessed. I know them online. After that they go head over heels for me. So I know that I can really make a guy fall in love. But it needs my effort. Why did not even 1 guy ever do that to me. Well both of them left me for another woman. I guy around me never interested in me. It is always some man online desperate for love and lonely.
It hit me deep. I feel insecure. Am I really unworthy. Not even 1 guy ever wooing on me. Both my ex left me for another woman. I am having low self esteem after those things happen.
It takes a while. For me to get back up on my feet again. I work out be fit. I wear braces and smile prettier. I put on nice pretty clothes. Tried hard to be the best part of me. Improving everyday. Just to get a guy to like me.
But nobody ever comes. Stress. Why did this happen. Is it because I am shy on the first time I meet a guy. Why? I see my unattractive friend w dead personality get a man. But not me. Am I lacking.
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Its best to get busy doing other activities (hobbies, studies, job, family, friends) than trying to do all kinds of stuff mainly to get a guy. Keep working on your health and looks, but ONLY for yourself, not to get a guy. Bcoz even though thr might a million guys in this world, you are going to love only one person truly. The right time has to come. No, its definitely not that you are lacking in something. Lack of confidence is killing you. Its just that you haven't yet found a guy who is strong enough to stick on with you. Its not your fault. Sometimes life just tests you. Stay strong. Its a beautiful world out there. Help others whenever you can. Thats what life is all about.1