For the most part, I am happy in my relationships but I always end interested in someone else. Sometimes I even end up thinking of what it'd be like if I broke up with my current boyfriend and ended up dating the other person.
It always starts when the other person starts showing a bit of interest. I've never crushed on someone while in a relationship if they didn't show at least some signs of interest.
Could it be I just enjoy the attention? If so, why imagine what it'd be like in a relationship with them?
I always end up feeling horrible as I don't want to lead anyone on and I don't want to end a good relationship that has seemingly no big issue.
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost four months now and this other friend started getting a bit flirty a couple of nights ago. He's stopped now that I said that I have a boyfriend but I'm still thinking "what if".
Anyone know why and how I could stop these feelings? Is anyone the same?
I feel so selfish and I don't want to hurt anyone :(
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Its okay as long as you dont act on these feeling. Its normal to like positive attention, everyone likes to feel wanted. Thoughts are nothing but thoughts, dont stress yourself out over it.1