I like someone. I am pretty sure he likes me. He asked me out once, and I said I was busy. He is flirting with me. But hasn't asked me out again and I want him to.
Was thinking of saying one of the following:
1. "hey I'm going to the _____(some activity e. g. gym) this Saturday, let me know if you'd like to meet me there."
2. "if you ever plan to come to ________(e. g. my gym or some other activity) one of these weekends, let me know. "
3. "If you ever want to have a coffee, let me know. Here's my number"
So which one is better - elegant, and not desperate / needy - and would be a nice 'carrot' for you guys to respond to - i. e. make you want to ask a girl out and pursue her further?
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1 and 2 sound like you don't really care and *maybe* would want to be friends or activity buddies.
3 sounds like you want to go on a date.0