How do I tell a guy I don't want to send nudes right now in our relationship?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a week and he is asking for nudes constantly. I never sent him nudes. Ever. But I want to tell him I don't want to right now in our relationship but I dont know how to put it.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • He is already eager to see your nude body after just dating for a week? I would've certainly taken things slower. Well, to be honest he kind off comes off as "one of these guys" to me but..

    Anyway.
    You could just tell him you want to slow down in your relationship or tell him you are not ready for sending him nudes yet. You should respect your body, and if you wish not to show that to him yet, he has to deal with that and respect your decision. If he can't, I would quit your relationship with him.

    But that is my opinion.

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What Guys Said 5

  • just tell him outright that it isn't something you do unless you are in a much more committed and serious relationship.

    I'd be very worried about a guy who repeatedly asks for this kind of thing so early in a relationship despite being told no. I'd be very concerned about his intentions and expectations. I and I think most legit guys looking for a solid healthy relationship would not ask for nude pictures from a girl they've been dating a week

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  • Damn a week huh? I don't think I have a fully nude after 7 years just some body parts haha. There really a light way to say it other than how you just said it.

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  • Tell him flat out what you are feeling. If he is mad about it or breaks up with you, he's not a keeper.

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  • Dump him. He only has one thing on his mind if he can't make it a week without asking for nudes.

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  • Then you know where his true intentions lie, tell him your not comfortable with a relationship with him right now and when he ask why tell him because he is acting like a perv

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What Girls Said 5

  • Tell him that you don't want to because you're uncomfortable & that you don't trust him enough right now. If he puts up a whiny bitchfit about it afterwards then I'd ditch him & run. Sorry.

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  • I would let him know you aren't comfortable with sending pictures of yourself at this time and that you will consider it in the future. That's only if you want to do it at all.

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  • I think he just want one thing tell he no straigt flat and then see what happenes

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  • One week in and he's requesting nude photos? I don't like that, I don't like that at all. No respect and obviously thinking with his other head. You don't need to come up with some lavish reason, just tell him no, you're not ready for that yet.

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  • I don't think he's in it for the long haul. I'd proceed with extreme caution around him if I were you.

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