I met a girl back in May and she is amazing. We went out a few times and had a great time. Got a little physical, but no sex. Then she told me she had been sorta seeing someone else but they were on a break and she wanted to see what happened there even though she had feelings for me. So I backed way off and started seeing other girls. Nothing serious, but having a good time. Fast forward two months and the girl's other situation crumbled, as I knew it would. I saw this girl at a party a few weeks ago and I said hi to her, but that's it and was spending all my time with this other girl. The very next Monday she blew up my text. Asked me to hang out with her and do stuff with her. I was thinking "wow, this is weird". So then this past weekend I went out with a different girl on a date. The very next day the first girl texted me to go see a show with her and a few of her friends in a couple weeks and has been texting me daily and being very friendly. She hasn't been like this since we first met. I am really trying to figure out what I should expect. On one hand she is maybe thinking enough time has passed that she just wants to be friends. On the other could it be that now the timing is better she actually wants to see what happens? I've asked a few of my girlfriends and they think she's interested, and I want to believe them, but I am just very skeptical. It's not like the girl broke my heart or anything, but it did sting a little the first time. I'm not actually sure I want a relationship anyway since I have been having so much fun being single. Based off what I told you, what do you think? I'm just curious. I'm fine either way though, just wanted to hear some opinions.
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You're clearly interested, if you weren't you wouldn't be asking this, but she does sound interested, she probably had a bad connection with the other guy, or something. You should try to go for it, if you want. But if you say you're happy being single then go ahead and be single!0
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