I went on a first date with this guy. We had conversed previously for a few weeks. We clicked really well & really enjoyed each others company & the conversation was easy & flowing! We texted throughout Monday morning. He worked nightshift & after my lunch break didn't expect to hear from him until late. 7:30 he texts me 'I can't stop thinking about u' I was flattered! :)
We did mention previous relationships. His ex gf broke it off with him just shy of 6 years. He didn't say why & I didn't ask. My ex dumped me BC of us not communicating well...& I didn't put out for him.
We can't wait to meet up again. He tells me that I can & should be open & honest with him & most importantly be myself.
If a guy was really into her, would he say those things? Or should I ask, if he only wanted ONE thing ( or to string her along), would he say those things?
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it's honestly too early to tell. i had a similar thing with my boyfriend, he seemed very into me but until they ask for a relationship you should always keep your heart guarded, even though it's not easy to.
it sounds like a good start but some guys come on very strong in the beginning to have sex.
until he asks you to be in a relationship just don't get too sexual. do not have intercourse or oral sex either. honestly my boyfriend didn't actually finger me until we were in a relationship. but he asked me to be in one within a few weeks.
and do not ask the guy to have a relationship. he has to bring it up.2