I know this might sound petty or immature on my part, but my ex just got into a relationship with this chick, annmnnnd he is posting it all over facebook, I mean I get it you're in a relationship SUPER!! But why blast it all over? I ran into him a few weeks ago asking if I was in a relationship and then know he apparently lives with this girl and loves her and he makes sure the world knows that! I thought about deleting him, but then I don't want him messaging me being all like oh you can't handle it? I just don't want to see all that, I've been in a few relationships after him but I never put it on blast! I'm i thinking way to much about this? It just sucks to see the person you we're suppose to spend a life with spending it with someone else and you're just over here like cool :(
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To begin, don't listen to anyone who says you can't get over him or anyone for that matter. Time heals everything and top of that this is young love, when you get older you will meet someone who will truly compliment and complete you.
Now to your question... okay he yells and screams and advertises his new girl all over the world because HE KNOWS YOU ARE LISTENING! He knows you are still crushing and he is taking full advantage of it, so you need to simply do one thing... stop paying attention, in reality. Not just to show him, actually stop paying attention, message will cross over sooner than you think, without you even moving a muscle.
Now there is also a possibility of a reverse scenario, he might ACTUALLY BE in love with this woman and she might be the most wonderful thing that ever happened to him since he was born. Their connection might be better than yours with him and he is just proud and screaming it out loud (that rhymed!). In that case, just be happy for them, genuinely and move on, close the chapter and call it a day.
In both scenarios, by you walking away and completely shutting the door, you are increasing your odds of him coming back to you because we always want what we can't have, move on, you're a beautiful girl and I am sure there you will find someone that actually deserves you. Either way good luck.0
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