How long should I wait to tell my boyfriend. I have a child?
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You need to tell him from DAY ONE ! Many guys can't accept someone else's
kid. I wasn't very good at it. However, some can. They are the exception but some can.
If you don't tell him, he might lose trust and walk away from you. And you couldn't blame him.
I did that very thing. I dated a girl 3-4 times, I was 23-24 somewhere in there. One day I see her
in the grocery store, and she says hello, this is my son. I said " I didn't know you had a kid". She
answered sheepishly, "Yeah, I was going to tell you, but... I was afraid you wouldn't want me". She
was right, I didn't. If someone hides something that big and important, how can you ever trust them?
You can't. I said, "I wish you had told me about your kid, her name was Samantha, I told her I wasn't interested in someone with kids and have a nice life. She married a big coke dealer. He would get ripped on coke and beat her. She lost her kid, job, everything. The coke dealer was shot in a bust and killed.
Please tell a guy if this comes up. He will resent you and consider you an enemy if you don't.0