I know this was a huge mistake. She's only 17. One of the biggest in my life by far. She was at my house and we were watching a movie and started making out. She was being a total tease, taking my clothes off and stuff but when i pulled up her skirt a bit she pushed my hand away and told me i was "using her" and she got really annoyed and started screaming at me. I went to hug her and she totally freaked out on me and like kicked me so i got annoyed and kinda hit her in the stomach. I felt so bad but then she kinda just went in my bedroom and went to sleep? I felt bad but i really don't get her reaction. We've been together for 1 year, and i just don't get it. When she woke up this morning she just kinda made breakfast even for me and went shopping with a friend. I don't get it really? It was a mistake. Any advice? Also why is she acting this way?
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Of course, she is Holding 'Everything in" Within----Her stomach, her heart---And rather than go Spastic again on you, she is holding it Together, although Maybe by the skin of your teeth.
You need to sit her down and have a Serious face to face Convo of what you did, Why you did it And---Be a gentleman and Apologize for 'Hitting a woman.'
I admit she was in the Dead wrong to 'Kick' like a kid having a tantrum, coming Unglued as she did, but in my Book of Etiquette, And as I was growing up to Learn----It is a coward who strikes a woman, but a bigger man to say "I'm sorry," and admit he was wrong.
She most likely is hurting Inside, doesn't Dare utter a word, and 'went shopping with a friend' to get away from you for the day, most likely talk This Mishap Over with Her friend, and this is Why-----She acting this way.
When you see her, have this little talk. If you both are in a good relationship, intend on being together in the future, then Keep the lines of Communication Open so This Doesn't have to Happen again.
Put your boxing gloves away, both of you come out of your corners And----Kiss and make up.
Good luck. xx0