My bf and I anniversary was yesterday. I thought maybe he would get me something but he didnt. He came home and I told him I got him a card and he's like I didn't get you anything and I just said that's fine but really I was a little upset. He could of at least got me a card or flowers. Didn't have to spend much but it's the thought that counts. When I first moved in with him I found two cards one from him and one from his ex gf. He said it was from one of their anniversarys. I brought thay up last night and he's like I don't know what your talking bout. When he knew what I was. I'm jw why he didn't buy me anything at all but yet he bought his ex gf cards and whatever else when they were dating. He's the one that broke up with her by the way cuz he didn't love her anymore n she had cheated on him.
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Most likely reason: he's a guy, and he forgot.
Next most likely reason: he's a guy, and didn't think it was that important (the anniversary, NOT your relationship).
Sure, it's possible that there's a relationship issue, but I'd say that's FAR less likely than either of the two above. Most guys simply don't make things like this a big priority - even guys who are MARRIED forget their anniversaries sometimes. It's like a girl remembering when the Superbowl is or what the proper timing is for the car - most girls don't care about that stuff very much and won't remember without a reminder or 3.0