This hot married chick I used to work with and I are friends. When we used to work at the same company we only actually worked together a handful of times but we always hit it off cracking each other up etc. She randomly emailed me one day out of the blue checking in on me as I was going through some stressful work stuff. From there we chatted fairly frequently. So after I left a year ago I stopped by her location a bank I was going to say hi but she was on the phone. She emailed me right away excited u see me how am I etc. Now we still chat frequently but it's mostly been me initiating things but she will chat with me over the course of a few days. I got kindnif tired if initiating so i didn't email her for a while. I stopped by and saw her recently and she seemed kind of nervous but we got it off. A week later last Friday night she sends me an email from her personal email which I didn't have. The subject was a ;) and all the email had was a link to a YouTube video about hot girls being crazy, and her name and cell phone number. I was super surprised by this. I don't know what to think. Or what she really wants? I want to tread lightly because I don't know?
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Sounds like she wants you to go out and party with her. Which Ill be honest is some seriosuly bad juju right there. Honestly if she is looking to step outside her marriage then thats a kettle of fish I would not want to open on the grounds of A) its totally uncool, B) who wants to be used, C) if she were to cheat on her husband, leave him for you, what makes you think she won't do the same to you. D) I think she might have taken you going to see her like that as you being interested.
Now you could just ignore it, and pretend everything is normal. But you might want to state your premise that you aren't looking to hook up or sleep with her. if you are looking to hook up and sleep with her than you might want to consider her husbands point of view. Cheating, no matter the situation is not cool. Period.
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