I told him we can just be friends because we're co-workers, and he got extremely offended. He is now bad mouthing me at work and spreading rumors. I just have a thing with dating co-workers. I did once before, and it wasn't good. Should I just have said I don't date co-workers? He is saying I slept with him, and then dumped him. I'm not really sure what to do with the situation but he told me the way turned him down was the worst possible way a female can turn down a guy. He called me a slut and whore even though I've only had three relationships ever.
How can I fix this situation at work with a guy I turned down?
What Guys Said 6
How did you turn him down? You left out an important part. Sounds like he is being a baby about it, but until I hear how you turned him down, it's impossible to tell!! It's fine to not want to date your coworkers! I actually avoid it too if at all possible. Although in my line of work it is really difficult to not occasionally hook up with some of the people that work for me.0
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Yes and then followed by the thing that you can still be friends but i think that you are wrong because you should not just stop dating co-workers because of one shot only.. Take your time to recover from that relationship and try again but if he asks you later and you still dont feel like dating co-workers then just tell him that you have been through a bad relationship with a co-worker recently and you need your time to think about it !0
You can't. He will never be friendly to you again unless you make it up to him0
he is trying to guilt you into reconsidering, you could play his game and start telling everyone he was the worst lover you ever had0
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