If I were to date her, she absolutely HAS to?

What is one thing that is a total dealbreaker in a relationship? For example, if she wasn't into hockey, there would be pretty much no chance you would make a move.


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  • I need at least a kiss on the lips after 2 dates.

    Otherwise I feel she's not into me.

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    • In terms of her personality makeup, she has to be able to be comfortable with being around a large group of black people, especially around a group of black dudes.

      Since I'm a black dude, I obviously have many black family members as well as black friends... and she has to be COMFORTABLE (not just tolerant) around them.

      You'll be surprised how many supposedly non-racist people have angst around a large group of black ppl.

    • A non-racial personality aspect:

      She has to be able to engage herself in conversation with me. Too many times I've talked to girls and it turns into a Q&A interview,

      where I ask question, she answers questions, (rinse and repeat).

      If she doesn't engage and try to get to know ME, or can't carry a casual conversation... instant turn off.

What Guys Said 6

  • wasn't thinking of the future, if she was too focused on the present and past. Also if she didn't want a family

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  • If she refused to let me eat what I like. Food is a passion of mine and being forced to eat vegan or something would cause a homicide.

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  • My deal breaker is if I feel bounded in the relationship. I really love my freedom and can't take it when somebody tries to hurt it. I can bear anything other then this.

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  • The biggest deal breaker is not being open to me about everything. And a smaller shallow one is having dissimilar... physical appetites.

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  • Dealbreaker for me is a girl putting off their insecurities onto me.

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  • She has to respect me as a man.

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