I have none of those traits. Not sucessful and not good looking.
And women have never liked me nor shown any interest.
I"ve heard that women don't go just for looks that they value personality more. Ok... but i have none.
by that i mean I'm plain boring and i don't speak.
So then what?
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Well you can always go for the left over girls. Plenty around. If you want something better. You gonna have to offer something. Nothing is free and ain't no such thing as love. We all want something and we have to offer something in return to get that. It fking sucks but that's the reality of things.
Just girls are more stubborn to admit that they too have expectations. Most would say yes overall they had go for personality but that ain't the truth. If it is. Then there won't be so many ugly loner guys around the world. You aren't the only one who matches the description of yourself. Plenty of guys and girls fall in that category.
I am in the exact rut as you are in. I mean I do get the occasional you look good from women that are above 30... which is quite depressing. It's as good as my mom telling me I look good. Just like you I have no looks, career wise... i have a decent job but the pay is a diploma level pay. Definitely no brains and my personality is not one that would even allow me to make friends. Let alone get a partner.
Having a rough childhood and life. Tends to mess you up in the personality department. So here I am at 22, a skinny, ugly, demoralisingly pessimistic guy with a job that would do well if you stay single. My chances of getting a girl are zero to none given how I still expect a somewhat decent look girl from another race other than mine.
Though I would say this. I did try couple of years back with a girl of a different race. Extremely attractive. She enters a room and at least 5 guys at any moment are thinking about her. So I tried my luck with her. I changed my personality to nothing that resembled me and it did work. She showed interest in me... only till I couldn't take it any more of acting like nothing I really am.
She didn't find the real me in any way interesting. Let alone me not having any looks. So you can try to act like someone else but only if you can keep it up. If not well, we are bound to die a lonely death.0