I met this guy online. We've been talking on the phone for a couple weeks. He has a very strong accent. He's really nice, but… I think it's either his personality or culture? He's just very… tells me what to do?
We talked today on the phone and he asked me what he should wear when we meet up and then told me to wear something similar because it's hot outside. Idk, weird. I told him I was cleaning my apartment and at the end of the conversation he was like well finish cleaning your apartment! I think he was kidding, kind of, but so far his humor is odd. We went for a walk in the park and he asked if I play frisbee. I said no… so now he brought a frisbee because he wants to teach me…. what if I didn't want to learn? Idk, I was nervous enough, why do we have to add in an activity that I suck at?
Idk, he called before we were meeting… which I thought we had already decided and he was like well we need to not be so indecisive and make a decision at what we're doing and what time. I thought we'd already said what and when we were going… he even asked me what he should wear. Then told me what to wear.
Earlier, he also map quested how far it was for me to get to where we were meeting. I said I could do it and he just went ahead and did it on his computer and then told me over the phone. I didn't want to give out my personal address and he kept asking well what are you close to?
He totally insisted that we play frisbee and I didn't want to. I just wanted to walk and talk and get to know him a bit… not show my lack there of skills at frisbee. So awkward. The whole thing was just awkward. I like him? But I may also only like him b/c he's the first person I've found to remotely be anything like what I want. So what do I do?
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Most Helpful Girl
You're the kind of person that like to "go with the flow", and is very individualistic when it comes to life. He is the type of guy who likes to take control of every situation. I've met a lot of people who are like that, but based off of past experience with dates and other friends, he is trying his best to be nice.
If you are unsure of where your future may stand with this man, but you like him because he is remotely close to what you have been looking for, give him a second chance. In fact, in this second date, you should do the same to him. See if that makes a difference?
If all else fails, search for quality over looks. Good luck with everything. xoxo0
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