idk how to take this so let me know how you would take this and what you think. this is what my boyfriend texted me after he had been mad at me and was not nice he texted his to me this morning... Idw to hurt you anymore... I am not normal when it comes to relationships... how should I take this ad what do you think he mean?
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i see it as to possible scenerios. either A, he wants to end the relationship and doesn't know how to be direct about it, so he is re-wording it to beat around the bush thinking it will be less painful for either of you. or B, he realizes that he is in the wrong and has hurt you; feeling guilty, he is admitting that he is no good at relationships and not wanting to hurt you further he is asking for your help, again not being direct about it. call him, don't text, and discuss what he said and try not to be too subtle about it. tell him that you don't want the relationship to end so you'll be willing to work on his issues and try to be proactive about resolving the situation. both of you already know that ending the relationship will only cause more pain, so be open and focus and bettering the qualitry of your relationship. any and every relationship is about communication, without it, it can never work. so communicate with him and help him do the same. if you don't try, you'll never know. and in my opinion it is somehow better knowing, than wondering "what if?" I hope I was able to give you some perspective, I try to help where I can. so best of luck to both of you : )0