AdamThomas recently said: Don't ask women what they find attractive, you'll never get a straight answer (same goes for men too tbh)
I disagree with this statement. I've watched my own reactions, and I've figured out what I find attractive, and I can articulate it. I don't usually share that information with women I'm at least considering, because doing so would allow me to be manipulated - but I do know what things are attractive and I can give a straight answer, if I want to.
I think most people do too, and will tell people that they're not interested in dating what those things are, or are willing to post them anonymously.
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You don't choose who you'll fall in love with. It's as simple as that. Yeah you can have a set of things you find attractive and have preferences but real life has proven to me that it doesn't work out that way and magically you just encounter someone who blows you away and you just feel butterflies. This person might not even have been near what you originally said you found attractive or might not meet all your preferences but yet it doesn't matter and you still adore them for some reason. This has so far happened to me with every single real life crush. Sure they share attributes that I like but ultimately none of them came in the package or looks that I originally would have said I liked. It's incredibly difficult to say this is my list of what I like and this will always hold true... bizarrely enough it sometimes just doesn't which is why yes, you can't get a straight answer because you'll never know who you'll fall for. The heart wants what the heart wants and love is weird like that.2