I've been going on dates with this girl for around 4 months now. It started off as casual dates here and there, but then we started seeing eachother more often.
A few dates went by, and I decided to ask her the question of where she thought we were at. It took her a little bit to answer, but basically told me that she wanted more dating experience. As she didn't start dating until 23, and here we are both at 25.
I respect her decision, and she's a wonderful girl. We have quite a bit in common, and are able to have hour long conversations. However, she wants to continue down the dating other path, and I'm beyond that stage of casual dating in my life. Not looking to settle, but just want to date someone who is wanting something possibly more serious in the long run of things.
So, here's my question for everyone. Do I break it off, and just call it quits, or do I patiently wait for a possible chance to arise?
- No, just end it.Vote A
- Yes, just keep at it. Things might change.Vote B
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Why dont u give her time and see if she establishes some serious connection with u? After sometime if nothing happens, tell her u want a serious long term relationship and not casual date? . she says she wants a casual date and if u dont reach to any conclusion during this discussion, then date someone else who is serious about it.1