So my gf met some guy through one of her friends. They don't really know each other in real life but they know who each other are. Randomly this guy started talking to her and now they talk a lot to each other. I already once told her about how I'm a little bit worried about it but she said I was just being insecure about it. I agreed and let it go but she still talks to him a lot and I can't help what I feel. She gives him way more attention when she's talking to him than she does to me (she responds as soon as he says something whereas for me she waits for a few minutes) and she doesn't really talk to guys that often so I'm kind of worried. And recently while she was talking to him she lied and said she was talking to one of her female friends. I know that it isn't because I haven't been talking to her enough, as a while back she said she wanted to spend more time with me (at the time I was studying) and I heeded her call. Why is she acting like this and should I be worried? what do you girls think about all this
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Yep. She's looking to better deal you.
I'm guessing you've been together for a little while, and the "magic" has started to diminish.
A lot of people out there, man. They're looking for that "spark" that they feel when they're in a new relationship. The excitement that comes from the mystery and always inevitably fades. They think they're supposed to feel that way forever. That this is love, when it's just a temporary chemical reaction.
The fact that she lied about it clinches it.
I've been in this exact situation, except I didn't see it coming. For about two weeks, she was always on her phone. I could tell she was being a little weird with it, like if I'd ask her who she was talking to she'd say "Just a friend" instead of a name, then one day I left a really sweet note for her on her car at work, and I guilt took over and she called me and said we had to talk. She broke up with me that night, and was dating him almost immediately, though she stoutly refused to admit that she'd been talking to him beforehand and insisted there was no one else. It was a lie. Just like other things were lies.0