okay so this guy's supposed to be coming over to my house today. he said he'd come over after this movie he's going to which was at noon, and he'd call me when it was done. well it's several hours later and so i obviously know he's not in the movie anymore, but i don't want to seem obsessive or anything so would it be weird to just text him something like "still at the movies?" "where are you?" what would you do?
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I wouldn't go with the 'where are you', sounds like you're controlling etc.
I think I'd make plans, and tell him, "Hey, you've not gotten ahold of me, I'm assuming you're not coming over so I'm going to make plans to do other things".
Which gives him time to realize he's fucked up his schedule, and make you a priority.1