When a guy says he wants to be friends first.. is he friend zoning you?
Being in the Friend Zone?
What Guys Said 1
No, he's just not dating you. Dating is a relatively expensive way for a guy to get to know a girl, and only dating women you already know at least a little is smart.
Think about this, your future husband could be spending money all the time dating a large number of women, often not making it even past the first date, or he could be just living day to day most of the time and targeting you and the few other ladies who have serious potential to only spend all that time and money on you so that those other other ladies, he could identify as not worth it without having to make that effort for them. Which do you prefer for him to be doing right now?
And the word friendzone shouldn't be used to describe people who are actually friends. It should be reserved for situations where 2 people have been dating (but with only one getting what they want out of it) and then as soon as one of them (the one who hasn't been getting what they want) asks for what they want out of the relationship, the other flakes out and insists they didn't realize they were dating, but thought they were 'just friends'.1
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