Need you guys' help with this one... so I had this mini crush on a guy that works in the same place as I (different dept). I know him through mutual friends (he actually dated a friend of my friend years ago). I am friends with him on Facebook, and we have each other's number (one day at lunch he asked me for my number). I openly told my coworkers that I found him attractive. One day he came by my lunch table and got to know all of us. After lunch, one of my coworkers decided to take it upon herself to find out which dept he worked at and proposed to him that we should go out and that I am shy. He asked her why is she doing it vs me, and that he will call me later. I let her do it, not realizing she was going to be so blunt and forward. I was mad at her for a little while, and ended up calling him later to tell him that it wasn't my idea and all of that. I didn't mention that I liked him or anything. We still keep in touch, and like each other's stuff on Facebook from time to time. To you think there is a chance for me having anything with him? Or has it gotten too awkward?
- Men like Shy girls, it isn't too lateVote A
- Things have gotten too weird.. You have been friendzonedVote B
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The only option now is to show/tell him that you are interested. You definitely have a shot, but at this point if you just stay quiet so will he, I'm sure he felt sort of shut down. If I get shut down by a girl I am not going to make a move unless I know she is interested.0