Girl i was seeing asked me out to the bar to hang with her and her friends. So i go and chill for a bit. there was a small blemish on her nose and i teased her about how she's been tanning too much. I didn't think much of it, since i always tease her about it and her mom says the same thing. Next she walks off and doesn't come back, i basically sat at the bar by myself for 45 mins and watched her flirt and sit down at different bar tables and talk to her friends. I got up and walked out right after, she didn't text or call to see where i went.
I text her 2 days later about what her deal was on that night and she sends me a mega long text, Stating how i smeared her makeup on her nose in front of her friend and pointed out a zit right away, bypassing what i actually said about tanning habits. then she said i "came onto the dance floor, tried to dance with her and shook my hands "no" at her... Then she starts going in circles in her text, "i know you're a really nice guy and sarcastic, but not a dick", "I just dont like your sarcasm, and i'm turned off by it now, sorry, maybe the next girl you'll treat better". I was like where the f*** is my apology for bailing on me and going and flirting with other guys right in front of me?
just for shits and giggles i text back "Are you mad bro?" she texts back that she's "very annoyed by my sarcasm hahaha"
After that i sent one more text saying, if you're telling me i'm a nice guy, but not a dick, why take it personal when we joke about it all the time. You need to communicate your issues like a grownup and not walk off. i left it with, If i was someones friend and seeing them, you think i would walk off, flirt, sit at a different bar, leave them alone at the bar to sit there for 30 mins awkwardly with no intentions of coming back?
Whats with her always playing the victim card? not even saying anything about leaving me alone at all. I've never been that uncomfortable at a bar before in my life.
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She finds the shit you do annoying, thats all. She took the piss by leaving you at the bar, but since she was so offended, she probably felt you deserved it.
Look how when she was even telling you why she was annoyed, you still texted back something stupid instead of understanding why you're annoying and then getting to talking about your grievances.
If a guy did that shit to me, and even when we were talking about it he's being dumb, I'd probably leave him in a bar to.
She's just not that into you tbh, but you'll find a girl who loves your silly jokey personality.
If you always annoy her with the jokes, she could of really told you a while ago, instead of leaving you in a bar, but hey, that's people for ya, just suck it up and realise she found your shit very annoying. Some people love that personality, some people get frustrated by it.1