I am a an 18 years old and I have a situation. Guy 1 asked me out and I said yes and we talked from there. He called me cutie and nice names and we flirted but we didn't meet in person. Then all of the sudden, I met guy 2 at the beach who is more attractive and I like him more and we exchanged numbers and told me I was very pretty and we agreed to hang out one day. I agreed to both of them to hang out. I don't want to say no to guy 1 so is it ok to go out with both of them at the same time without them knowing? Will it ruin my reputation if I date both of them because I want to be nice and not dump them because they both seem like very sweet guys. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
fig out witch iz betta in bed thn b honest n say i dont want u0
Most Helpful Girl
As long as you haven't decided with either of them that you're exclusive, I don't think there's anything wrong with dating the both of them at the same time. However, you have to make a decision at some point, especially when establishing a committed relationship comes up as a topic. You can't have 2 boyfriends. That defeats the purpose of having one in the first place, which is to be monogamous. Also, would you like it if you were in a relationship with a guy (ONE guy), and then it turned out that he had been in a relationship with another girl too at the same time? I kind of doubt that it would feel nice. So, you need to decide who you want to keep dating, and who you want to dump. Maybe not immediately, but I would say sooner rather than later.0