I hear a lot of comments from guys about how much it sucks to be friend zoned. Not so much from girls though.
Cause I'm sure it happens to girls too, so why do they not complain about it?
Is it just that girls value their friendships more than guys do? Or do girls just not get friend zoned?
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Girls generally don't get friend zoned. And here's why: First, girls are savvy enough to not friend zone themselves. They find a guy doesn't like them, they don't keep hanging on because there's almost always another guy waiting in the wings.
Second, imagine this: I meet you and want to date you. I'm too scared to admit it, so I hang out with you. You aren't attracted to me romantically and will never be attracted to me. I take any crumb of affection you give me, so next thing you know I'm the shoe store holding your purse while you shop. I'm firmly in the friend zone.
Alternatively, I meet you and you really want to date me. I think you're attractive, but not really someone I want to date. But I'll still fuck you. Alternatively, if I don't find you attractive, I probably won't spend much time invested in you. I won't invite you over to hang out and watch movies with me... but then would still fuck you if I had a buzz and was horny.0
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