I don't know what to do please help.
- Ask her outVote A
- Don't stay friendsVote B
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Unless you're already best friends (which is a mistake you should have made a move sooner, but hey), don't tell a girl you're not dating you like her. What's she supposed to say? If she's secretly in love with you she can shout 'I love you too whatweallknow omg unicorns!'. But most likely she doesn't like or not like you yet. Hopefully she thinks you're okay looking and mildly entertaining and is willing to get to know you better on a dating basis. So again, what's she supposed to do?
Ask her out. Now its obvious - she says yes, or no, or she makes an excuse which means 'no' unless she actively tries to reschedule. don't ask girls out in some vague sense if possible, try to ask on a specific date.
If you've been best friends for years and are deeply in love with her and she knows everything about you, go ahead and tell her your feelings, because in this case, there's no need to go on 'a date'. either she feels the same and you become a couple, or she doesn't, and you don't. But if you don't know her super well? Just ask her on a date.1