We've been friends for about a year, we are both on summer break and live a 1 hour drive away. We have seen each other a few times throughout the summer and it's always a great time, chemistry is there etc.
2 days ago we were talking and I told her I wanted to take her out to dinner, obviously as a date. She told me she couldn't this week because she was busy (she works 40 hours a week) but we could when she returned, she leaves for a small trip next week with her family.
I sorta dropped the bomb and told her I honestly just wanted to see her prior to leaving instead of waiting till she returned, since I would be a lot busier once school started again. She told me she didn't want me to drive to her hometown just for food. We sorta left it as this and I took it as a no.
The next day I woke up to a text from her telling me she understands and it's not that she can't go she, it's just she is busy this week and she asked me when I started school. I told her when I started and she never replied.
After thinking about it I now see I was never fully rejected instead I was told to wait, since she had other priorities.
How do I now go about this, she knows my intentions so do I wait till she contacts me or do I reunite are contact once she returns?
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Well the #1 thing to scare off a girl is being needy/showing neediness. Play it cool and if she doesn't want to put time aside for you then its no big deal. Make it seem like you mind driving over there for her, and if she doesn't want to see you then its no problem, you just thought it would be fun. Don't text her constantly or ask her why or why not. She'll eventually come around if she feels like she wants you and wants to hang out with you. If she doesnt, then she's not worth your time and there's plenty of girls way better than she is.0