Ok so to start off, I married my high school sweetheart fresh out of school, I am now 29 good looking in great shape, and I can sell ice to a Eskimo so for the most part I have no problem talking or approaching girls and I basically have been on a lot of "dates" / "hooking up" the last three years and have a really good idea of the kind of girl I want to be with. I find myself now been divorced for three years and ready to settle back down and get into a long-term relationship, the problem I have is that all my friends are now getting married and doing the family thing like I did years before so there is no meeting someone through a friend. I have tried the whole online dating thing a few just to realize it is a waste of time, money and full of disappointment on multiple levels. I get from a lot of girls online that I look like I am a player or when we do meet "they can't read me" even if I really like them. Curse of a Scorpio I guess lol. My question is outside of the bar scene and online where do I go to meet good girls? I am at a loss and tired of being alone and want to have that emotional connection with a good girl, and have the best of intentions. However I feel I have exhausted all the options due to my work schedule. I'm honest to a fault and the most loyal person. With that being said after what I've been through and my personal soul searching I have high standards and I am unwilling to settle for less than extraordinary.
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Your next partner could be anywhere. Gas station, church, store. Wherever. You see a girl you like? Anywhere, doesn't matter, tell her. If she isn't up to your standards then you don't have to keep seeing her. It's okay to have high standards. It's okay for a woman to but not a man? Please.1
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