Me and my friend are 23, and his mom is 38.
I've been good friends with him since middle school, so I've known his Mom for a long time and she has always been single as far as I know.
My friend actually goes to college in a different state, and I attend college in town. While I was driving past his house on the way home from work, I noticed that she was carrying a lot of groceries. I pulled onto the side of her house and decided to give her a hand so she can unlock the door to the house. I then helped her bring all the bags inside.
While she was cooking dinner, we started talking about the old days and my friendship with her son (we will call him Jake) and how I've known him for a long time. When she finished cooking, she also made me a plate for helping her out and we talked a bit more.
As I prepared to leave, she told me I can come over anytime since I'm Jake's friend. I told her that I'll think about it... but she started telling me how lonely it is in the house without Jake and how it was nice to have company sometime. So I told her I'll come back the same time tomorrow.
To make the story short, I went over her house everyday for about a week and I had fun talking to her. She was good company and our conversations were pretty good.
One night she purchased 21 Jump Street and she poured us some whine. We were both sitting at opposite ends of the room drinking and laughing at the movie. She then eventually came over to me and she started cuddling with me and running her hands up my chest.
I was already pretty tipsy, so I didn't stop her. We ended up kissing as well... one thing led to another... and its as the title says.
I feel really guilty about the whole thing, and I'm not sure what to make of the situation. I haven't talked to her since (this happened a week ago) Should I tell my friend? Should I talk to her about what happened?
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I knew there were many other out like me! I've have a story like this but a bit different. I honestly would NEVER tell my homegirl that I had sex with her mother, that's just bringing trouble that you don't need and honestly, you have a very high chance of not only ruining their relationship but yours as well. If you feel guilty, then the best thing to do and it's what I did, just not keep contact with them for a few years and then slowly get back in touch. It would most definitely depend on the previous relationship that you and your friend had. But for the mom, once you cross that line there's no going back if your honestly tell your friend that you had sex with his mom. Now, I am not saying that you should stop, if it feels good and your friend is in another state then I don't think you have much to worry about. But once it gets too much you should find the limit and then leave. To prove that my method has worked, I still talk to my homegurl from all those years ago just not her mom.1