So I met this girl a few times before I went abroad this summer for Italy. In the middle of my trip I decided to message her and things picked up from there. Since then we've made plans for when she gets back on campus, flirted almost every day, and she's overall just a great girl. Now the last time I talked to her was last Friday and things seemed great, but then I sent her a text that night and no response. Same thing for Sunday. As far as I know I haven't done anything that would make her mad. So now I'm playing the waiting game to see if she gets back to me and if not if I should forget about her and move on. I really like the girl but I've already sent her two texts and don't want to seem needy/creepy especially if this could go somewhere, which I'm starting to doubt it will. I don't really have a question I guess I'm just looking for some advice.
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Either there is bad cell service where you are Or----She has put you on her pay no mind list after your------Things seemed great. Unless she has a Good Excuse, I find this rude and crude, not even sending you back a reply all weekend. However, let's be fair, perhaps the 'Text' didn't Take, so send her One more. I have been abroad so I know on Either end, at times there can be connection problems.
However, if she doesn't Reply That time, then you need to---------Stop 'Playing the waiting game,' my friend, and Stop Contacting this chick. Wait and let her Contact You if she wants to Still be on Your List for even being a friend. Just about then, she would be on My list for being nothing but a fair weather friend.
She may have gone 'Abroad' herself and may have got up with another, which in the 'Boy meets girl' world happens every day. However, it's still not proper in my Book of Etiquette, to put someone you have 'Met' and had a few laughs and giggles with on the Other end, to just drop out of sight and fall of the face of the earth. The person that I am, I would have shot you a text, with or without you having sent me One, just to say "Hi."
Go out there and enjoy the rest of your trip. And when you step back in your own territory again and she Still hasn't pushed a button, Continue your Beguine of keeping at arm's length. A girl like this is Not reliable, dependable or even could be loyal, and most likely would end up putting your heart in------Harm's way.
Good luck... Ciao. xx1