Right'o this friend has been really into me for months, we got together and I fell for her. I fell for her hard, and I fell for her fast.
I stopped acting like myself and started to do too much for her and was too available, essentially I'v failed her shit-tests. She broke up (out of the blue) with me and I was gutted, but we cleared the air and she says she wants to go back to being friends.
Im doing No Contact (about 14 days in) and thats made me relise how big Iv fucked up with her. She still likes me, but because I failed her shit-tests she is no-longer attracted to me.
How do I get her to be re-attracted to me... or once you've failed the test is that it? Obviously Im now going to stop being there for her so much and try to make her chase me again, but will she? And if so how do I approach this?
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1. Stop all contact immediately
2. Get a girlfriend and make sure she notices. And get a girl who is not for a serious relation either. Don't screw some innocent girl over.. :)
3. most imp of all.. do NOT reply for 2-3 when you get a text/message/IM from her for a few days0
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