Basically I started talking to a guy a month ago. I think he's really cool and everything and we have a lot of chemistry. Yesterday I basically asked what we were. He said, "well what do you want it to be?" and I explained that since he's leaving in September to go back to college that I'm not looking for a long distance relationship since that will be my first relationship. He was relieved. We kind of agreed that at this point it's kind of friends with benefits. He knows however, that there will be no sex involved. Do you think a guy would do this just for all the other physical perks or do you think he actually likes me? I have a huge fear of commitment, so I was relieved that he felt the same way. Now I'm starting to feel weird about it.
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The 'benefit' in 'friends with benefits' is sex. If there's no sex, you're just friends.2