I've been out with this guy a few times and he seems absolutely lovely. I feel completely comfortable around him, he makes me laugh and I genuinely enjoy myself when I'm with him. The problem is that I feel like there's something missing. I just can't put my finger on it. I just don't feel butterflies or nervous excitement when I think about him. I know that I could live quite happily with him if needed be buut I also know that I could live quite happily without him. He's just not a top priority in my life. I'm afraid to make things anymore serious with him cause I don't know what these uncertainties mean. With all my other love interests I was keen on them from the start but perhaps that's why they failed? Have any of you guys been in similar situations? What did you do? I really don't want to hurt him more than I have to so I'd like to make a decision ASAP.
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Maybe you'd be better off as best friends then lovers. One of my best friends is an ex girlfriend that just didn't click with me. He would probably make a good person to go to when you have problems and when you need someone to talk about but if there is something missing then there is something missing. You sound like a nice girl and I'm sure good things will come your way. Just tell him that you don't think that you're meant to be with each other but you would still continue to be friends with him. But the thing that most girls mess up on is actually sticking to what they say. If you say you're going to be friends with him then be friends instead of spacing yourself into nothing. A nice breakup that fades is worse than a hard rejection that ends immediately in my opinion.0