I went on 4 really fun dates with this guy & we have a lot in common.. we graduated from same college & have similar life goals. My huge concern now is even though he claims he's not a huge party guy anymore, he still goes out with friends and gets drunk (not wasted) maybe every other week. I've NEVER enjoyed drinking (I know I'm weird) & I've seen alcohol bring out crappy behavior in some people. I also admit I'm not a very secure person so I'm not sure I could handle his drunken nights. He's asked me out again & I'm afraid he'll want to get serious soon, which I'm hesitant about. I really like him otherwise, but is this whole thing doomed bc of our drinking differences?
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It could be... a lot of people drink which is alright, but not a lot of people know when to stop and they keep going and going. Drinking could be fun, but most of us humans make it unfun and dangerous to ourselves. Talk to him about it before you get serious with him. Remember your in control, think about the present and perhaps future problem it could lead you to. Drinking ofter brings out the worst in people, is that someone that you just might want to be with in the long run? Good luck with everything ms, be cautious.0