Boyfriend likes dirty pages on facebook?

[Anonymous]

Should that worry me? He likes pages of girls boobs or sex related pages he doesn't actually like any pics just the pages. Shouldn't he be satisfied with me?

[Wanderlust1017]

I know exactly how you feel, it sucks doesn't it? My boyfriend is the same, he goes on pages like The Chive or TFM Babes, iFunny & I know he even saves the pictures. It made me feel like complete shit, like I wasn't good enough for him that he had to save pictures. I told him how I felt & he told me it was a guy thing & almost all guys do it.

At first I was really really bothered by it, to the point I was going to break up with him, but then I realized something. He's with me, not those girls. I even saw the pictures of the girls he's saved, they're all random, varying from different body types & ethnicities so it made me feel a little better of what kind of girls he looks at & it wasn't just a certain type of girl or people he actually knew.

While it still kinda bothers me, I feel a little better at ease knowing he knows how I feel about them. While it gets me down sometimes, I'm not nearly as upset by it as I was before. I think as long as you express to your boyfriend how it makes you feel, he will change his ways. He might not delete them or unlike the page (& don't tell him what to do, it won't help) just say how you feel & leave it that.

My boyfriend also makes me feel wanted & beautiful (& ever since I expressed how I felt, he's done it more) so I feel little more secure. I know it sucks, trust me, but just remind yourself, those are girls he's never gonna be with. he's with you :)

[Ozanne]

Don't even worry about this. Guys are simply visual when it comes to these sites and yes he finds you appealing. Men are going to look at women regardless of how you think it can be controlled because men find women beautiful, period. They love our bodies and shapes and liking a page like this has nothing to do with his love for you or how he feels about your own body. He's simply looking and liking a page that offers something nice to look at. He's not going to run off with any of these girls because he's not thinking of the girl as a person attainable to be with. Men like boobs and ass and that's a way to look at what they like. You might like looking at JW Waterhouse paintings, he likes boobs and ass - there is about as much significant to both that make the other feel the way they do. He loves your body most because he can have it any time he likes and he is WITH you because you do it for him. Looking at p*rn or liking a page on Facebook is no threat to you or your appeal to him. It's just a guy being a guy and liking the form of a woman, and nothing more. Hope this helps! :)

[Ghosty]

This.

[Ozanne]

Thanks for MH :) Hope it helps

[Anonymous]

I guess it's just boys being boys. All that i know is most boys love that kind of stuff, so i shouldn't be bothered. If it's bothering you, you can just have a talk with him and tell him that it bothers you that he is looking at those pages. He might just want some make out time or some dirty moments (if you're into that, if you're not that fine) but honey he is your boyfriend, you can talk to him about anything. He will probably understand.

[CrazyAK]

Maybe he likes to have an occasional wank to some pics, but thats very arrogant of him since he has a girlfriend.

[05Jueey]

I understand why that would make you uncomfortable. Its definitely not an indicator of his level of commitment though. Guys like variety

[Anonymous]

he's definitely cheating on you