I fell in love with my FWB, he was all I thought about (still is), he treated me amazingly and treated me nicely. But then we got in a fight and he had sex with my (ex) friend (who I introduced him to). He said he feels bad and he told me he's gonna continue to talk to her but he promised he isn't gonna have sex with her... he said he isn't gonna be mean and cut her off. He said he's trying to figure himself out and stop being a 'hoe'. He said he wants a commited relationship one day but not now... he said we can be friends til then, does he deserve a second chance? Or nah? He's the only guy I really want... I love him.
- Second Chance?Vote A
- Or Nah?Vote B
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You only had a friend with benefits type of situation, did you two make a promise to be exclusive to each other? If not, then he did nothing wrong. That's why friends with benefits are so difficult in my opinion, I feel like someone always (or usually) catches feelings.
I would say, what do you really want? Do you still want him in your life? If so, then give him another chance but you'll just have to remain friends until he is ready for a relationship. You can't pressure him into something he isn't ready for, that will only push him farther away from you. Try to be patient. You seem like a sweet girl, sometimes these things just take time:)1